On love
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By Helenasia - in Love Published: Monday, 19 October 09 - 07:18 PM (GMT) Last Updated: Monday, 19 October 09 - 07:31 PM (GMT) |
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For almost 2 years now I have been incredibly stupid in love. I have fallen in love with those who are unavailable, either emotionally or physically, sometimes both. I have fallen for those who are immature both physically and emotionally, and worst of all, I have fallen deeply in love with those who belong to someone else.
This has happened more than once, more than twice in the past 2 years.
Wanna know who I have not fallen in love with?
The (single) ones who fell for me.
For some reason, although I would really love to share my life with someone, I want it to be on my terms, and those who have made a move on me, in the manner I deem appropriate, or acceptable or welcome, just haven't done it for me.
I strongly believe that there is someone out there for me, that I won't have to settle for. And I believe that being single is not the best attribute a man can have.
This sounds awful, but come on, how many attractive funny and awesome dudes aged 30+ are single? I suppose what I mean by this is that I don't mind fighting for someone, but...I don't go looking for trouble. It takes two baby, it takes two.
I would rather spend the next year working my ass off, having stolen moments here and there, romantic affairs with gorgeous men from other countries, passion and fire.... than sit at home knowing I could do better, wasting my life away on someone I do not love.
One of my friends mothers told her that she should only marry someone who loves her more than she loves him. Now, although thats not so bad, for me, I won't settle for like.
I want it all.
Love without pain isn't really romance (Röyksopp)
PS. No I am not seeing anyone, but I have a massive crush.
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